Single Review: The Way I Was Raised by Bennet Elliot


"The Way I Was Raised" is a poignant, introspective look at the quiet burden of generational habits and the emotional cost of conflict avoidance. Bennet Elliot explores the friction between how we are taught to behave and the internal reality of living with those lessons.

The song excels in its relatability, specifically targeting the "people-pleaser" psyche. It captures the exhausting nature of maintaining composure at the expense of personal resolution.

 The lyric "Feel emotionally stunted at sixteen" highlights a disconnect between chronological age and emotional maturity caused by suppressed feelings.

 The chorus serves as a fatalistic anthem, suggesting that behaviors like "keeping it all in" are hardcoded into one's DNA.

  Elliot uses clever imagery, such as needing "a new pair of scissors" for cutting ties and describing life as "hide, don't seek", to illustrate a life lived in retreat.

 Sets a somber tone, establishing a history of being told they "did the right thing" by never learning to fight.

 Provides a sharp realization that "growing apart" is often just a byproduct of reaching adulthood, coupled with the frantic feeling of running while others are merely walking.

 A repetitive, rhythmic mantra that mirrors the cycle of the behavior described—doing it "over and over and over again".

"There's no use in trying to change DNA".

This line anchors the song's emotional weight. It’s a track for anyone who has ever felt like they are watching their own life from the sidelines, governed by a "polite" upbringing that doesn't allow for the messiness of true healing. It’s a quiet, devastating realization set to a rhythm of resignation.






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